Cross Court Conversations: Pickleball Etiquette 101

Pickleball isn’t just about hitting the ball over the net. It’s about the people, the passion, and the good vibes that keep us coming back for “just one more game.” But let’s be real — nothing kills the fun faster than bad etiquette. That’s why we’re diving into the unspoken rules that make pickleball the most neighborly sport around.

The Fundamentals of Being a Good Pickleball Neighbor

1. Respect the Paddle Tap

Win or lose, meet your opponents at the net with a paddle tap. It’s quick, it’s easy, and it says: “Good game, neighbor.”

2. Call It Like You See It

Line calls? Be honest. If it’s close, call it in. Trust is worth more than a single point.

3. Keep the Vibes Positive

Cheer, laugh, celebrate — but don’t be that player yelling across three courts because you landed one big shot. We’re here to have fun, not host a rock concert.

4. Share the Court

In rec play, remember others are waiting. Rotate out, let new folks in, and make some new friends.

The “Legal but Questionable” Shots

Pickleball’s full of colorful shots that make highlight reels… but they don’t always make you new friends in rec play.

• The Nasty Nelson: Smacking your serve straight into the opponent at the kitchen line? Totally legal. Totally awkward in a friendly game.

• The Body Bag: Firing a drive right into your opponent’s chest or leg. It’s part of the strategy at higher levels, but in casual play it can feel a little… aggressive.

Bottom line: Just because you can doesn’t always mean you should.

Friendly Play vs. Tournament Play

Here’s the thing: pickleball has two personalities.

• Friendly rec play is about laughs, rallies, and bringing everyone in — especially newbies. Etiquette leans toward keeping the ball alive and making sure everyone has fun.

• Tournament play is about strategy, pressure, and yes, unleashing the Body Bag if that’s what it takes to win. In this setting, those spicy shots are part of the game.

Good etiquette means knowing which version of pickleball you’re playing — and matching your style to the vibe.

Quick Read: Top 5 Unwritten Rules of Pickleball

The Takeaway

Pickleball is competitive, emotional, and sometimes downright silly — but it’s also one of the most welcoming sports out there. Good etiquette isn’t about being stiff or boring. It’s about keeping the game fun for everyone. Remember: On the court, everyone’s a neighbor.

Listen to the Etiquette Episode

Greg and Mike covered pickleball etiquette before Christana joined the crew — and it’s a classic. Listen below: